Are you suggesting that men can decide whether a woman can or cannot have an abortion?

Are you suggesting that men can decide whether a woman can or cannot have an abortion? Because if we want to be factual, for an egg to become fertilize, yes, there is sperm needed, and the egg with the sperm become one different thing, a new human being, which by the US constitution, by law, has the right to be born. Yes, all people involved have the responsibility for this new human being, but for some weird reason, only one has to pay all the bills and only one has the right to decide whether or not to end the life of that new human being, Do you consider that fair?